Understanding Abuse in Romantic Relationships: Part 2

About 5 years ago, a renowned gospel singer from my hometown lost her life to domestic violence. The husband would eventually get sentenced to life imprisonment. Of course, their children are now without a mother or a father, carrying trauma that will be part of their existence for the rest of their lives. The death of this gospel artist sparked not just an awareness (of what could happen behind closed doors in some religious homes), but a movement that inspired many to summon the courage to not just speak up but leave.

Chidi Hezkiah, LPC, LADCMH, IAADC, ADSAC AssessorJanuary 13, 2026abuse, abusive behaviors, abuse in romantic relationship, abusive marriage, abusive relationship

Understanding Abuse in Romantic Relationships: Part 1

A lot of people confuse abuse with human imperfection. But there’s a difference between somebody having a rough day, being human, or making an honest mistake versus somebody choosing to be abusive. A person dealing with their own issues may unintentionally hurt you, apologize sincerely, and work to grow. An abusive person uses harm as a weapon, then keeps repeating the behavior without true accountability, remorse, or change.

Chidi Hezkiah, LPC, LADCMH, IAADC, ADSAC AssessorJanuary 9, 2026abuse, abusive behaviors, abuse in romantic relationship, domestic violence

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